Our OB was very kind and understanding and agreed that he would do another scan for us the following week for peace of mind, before doing the D & C. I reluctantly agreed, but we continued to question the integrity of the test. His suggestion was that we have another D & C so that he could test the remains (it’s so early I’m not even really sure what to call it this time? Embryo? I’m not sure this one would have made it to fetus stage?). He explained that we had probably just been very unlucky to experience a miscarriage on two occasions and agreed that this was unexpected given our earlier blood tests.
Our OB was very understanding and patiently explained to us that it was highly unlikely that there was an error with the scan. So, we waited in angst the next few hours until our appointment time. We had a long chat and decided that, although we were sure the technicians administering the ultrasound knew what they were talking about, that we would insist on another scan for a second opinion, just to ease both our minds. I was clearly pretty upset and relayed my findings to him. Mid-googling, Sam called to check in on how I was doing. It appeared guidelines in most countries had been updated in recent years to reflect those findings, but it really didn’t do anything to ease my mind about our experience. There was also some disturbing research from the UK that indicated about 1 in every 200 miscarriages were diagnosed incorrectly, leading to unnecessary D & C procedures. I thought a miscalculation was a very real possibility for us, considering we were surprised to find out we were pregnant in the first place. There were also an equal amount of sites indicating that a heartbeat should show at 7 weeks unless the dates were miscalculated. There were numerous stories of ladies online reporting that they saw no heartbeat at 7 weeks and then a very clear one a week later. I spent most of the afternoon googling how common it is to see a heartbeat at 7 weeks. The receptionist was very understanding and agreed to fit us in to see our OB that afternoon. Luckily, his clinic is in the same building as theirs, so they showed us the back way to get there using the fire exit so we wouldn’t have to face all the mums-to-be and new-born’s parading up and down the halls and in the elevator on our trek up there. The ladies at the ultrasound clinic reassured us that multiple miscarriages do happen and suggested we see our OB as soon as possible. I thought that another miscarriage was pretty unlikely to be the case (I’d already had 3 blood tests to show my HCG levels were going up every week and my nausea wasn’t acting like it was going to ease up anytime soon). We were told, “this has probably only just happened”. We went for our first scan this Monday, only to be told that there was no detectable heartbeat, although our measurements indicated growth to 7 weeks. I thought it was fairly common not to find a heartbeat at an early scan. What Happens When You Don’t See a Heartbeat at Your 7 Week Scan
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